Four breakup songs that will get you through your grief

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As a seasoned veteran of heartbreak, I can wholeheartedly vouch for the healing power of music during those dark and desolate post-breakup days. These four tunes are like a comforting balm to soothe our wounded souls, each offering a unique perspective on the agonizing journey through the stages of grief.

As someone who has gone through several breakups myself, I can wholeheartedly say that they are a difficult and painful experience. In most cases, it seems like only one person is eager to end things, leaving the other party in a state of radical sadness. It’s a feeling that’s hard to shake off, but time and self-care can help heal the wounds.

What can we do when it seems like all is lost? Friends and family could provide support, but ultimately, it’s about confronting our personal emotions truthfully.

In this world, there’s simply nothing more healing than the power of music. It may not immediately take away our sorrows with a soothing lullaby, but it offers solace and aid in our journey towards healing. Music has an extraordinary ability to help us conquer our challenges.

Four breakup songs that will get you through your sadness

Prince – “Nothing Compares 2 U”

Acknowledging Sinead O’Connor’s unique take on the cover song, may her legacy thrive. Regardless, it was clearly her interpretation. Despite Prince not being a fan of her version as he felt she stripped the soul from the track, his live rendition with Rosie Gaines is considered superior to O’Connor’s by many.

As a devoted fan, I find that Prince’s rendition resonates deeply with me because it carries a profound sense of sorrow yet intertwines a glimmer of hope in its melody and rhythm. It’s as if the flowers may wilt, but there’s an inspiring undercurrent of optimism that echoes at the song’s conclusion. In the aftermath of heartache, we crave some respite, and Prince provides just that.

Alanis Morissette – “You Oughta Know”

Instead of focusing on something entirely different, it might be appropriate to acknowledge that in certain situations, a significant amount of anger could be beneficial after a disappointing conclusion. After all, we never wanted the relationship to dissolve, didn’t we? Perhaps they were the ones who walked away, those idiots! We truly deserve more than what we got, and let me tell you, if we ever cross paths with them again, we won’t soon forget their blunder.

As a woman who has navigated my fair share of emotional turmoil, I can relate to the raw intensity of Morissette’s music. Her songs resonate with me because they reflect the complexities and contradictions that often accompany our feelings when we’re going through tough times. When emotions are high, logic seems to take a backseat, and it feels like each day is a struggle to regain balance, much like recovering from a powerful drug. But I have come to believe that these experiences make us stronger and more resilient in the long run. Morissette’s music has been a source of strength for me during challenging periods in my life, as it seems she understands and validates the anger and frustration that we often feel when faced with adversity. So, yes, I can appreciate her music, even if it isn’t always the most “adult” way of expressing ourselves, because we both have a right to be pissed off sometimes, and her art reflects that truth.

Roy Orbison – “Crying”

In a distinctly unique vein compared to Prince, Morissette, and Orbison offers an emotional release – one we all desperately require after a heartbreaking parting. It’s like there are numerous phases of sorrow associated with breakups, but I don’t feel like investigating that right now since it’s too sad. We’ve all experienced the sting of rejection, and it’s never easy. Research doesn’t alleviate our pain; instead, we turn to music for solace during such moments.

As a long-time fan of Roy Orbison, I can confidently say that his song “Crying” has been an emotional companion for me during some of my most difficult times. The haunting melody and heart-wrenching lyrics seem to resonate with the deepest depths of one’s soul, making it impossible not to feel every word. Orbison’s emotive voice adds a layer of raw emotion that leaves you feeling like you are experiencing the pain right along with him. While listening to this song may bring tears to your eyes, it can also help you work through and understand the stages of grief in your own life. It is truly a brilliant piece of music, and I highly recommend it to anyone going through tough times.

Of Montreal – “The Past Is a Grotesque Animal”

Among all breakup songs, none is as raw and truthful as this one. What sets it apart, making it both challenging yet essential to hear, is that over a span of about 12 minutes, Kevin Barnes vividly portrays the process and the heart-wrenching pain of a relationship’s dissolution. His emotions range from rage, empathy, deep affection, and finally, profound sorrow.

Inquiries are made but responses remain elusive – that’s often how breakups unfold. Sometimes, we’re left wondering why our lives took a turn for the worse, and sometimes we don’t even want to find out. All we truly grasp is that we began with joy and witnessed it fade away. By the end of this song, you will realize that you are not the only one experiencing such feelings.

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2024-08-12 13:00