When Jesse Tyler Ferguson Shared His Experience of Raising Twin Sons: ‘You Have to Let Your Ego Go’

As an ardent admirer of Jesse Tyler Ferguson, his journey as a father and husband resonates deeply with me. His candid reflections on the joys and challenges of parenthood, particularly through surrogacy, are both inspiring and relatable.


Jesse Tyler Ferguson, well-known for his role in Modern Family, has been candid about his journey into parenthood, welcoming two sons, Sullivan ‘Sully’ Louis and Beckett Mercer, with his partner, Justin Mikita. He often discusses the trials of fatherhood as he nurtures his boys; moreover, he emphasizes the significance of surrogacy in their family story.

In 2023, Ferguson had a chat with People to discuss his journey as a parent, comparing raising two boys and surrogacy. He spoke fondly of an energetic Beckett stepping up as an older brother to a five-month-old Sully. Ferguson recalled, laughing, as he remembered Beckett’s playful remark, “Sully, show us what you’ve got!

Apart from assisting Beckett during stages such as potty training when he was around two and a half years old, Ferguson also advocated for seeking advice and comfort from other parents. He emphasized the importance of vulnerability when asking for help, understanding that parenting is not an easy task and no one manages it perfectly simultaneously.

He admitted, “‘I might benefit from assistance and guidance.’ It seems to me that one must set aside personal pride in this situation, because no one excels at it immediately.

Fergusson added, “Even those who claim to be naturally skilled or destined for this work are seeking assistance in one form or another – be it through consultation, reading a book, or online research. It’s wonderful when we can embrace advice, as knowledge is meant to be shared and passed down.

Additionally, he expressed his opinions regarding surrogacy, emphasizing the importance of expressing love and respect towards the surrogate mother who helped grow his family. In discussing surrogacy, he mentioned that he and his partner, Mikita, were able to build a connection with the surrogate and her relatives.

Jesse Tyler Ferguson was incredibly grateful for her significant part in growing their family. He emphasized that the process of surrogacy is a journey marked by trust and respect. Speaking about the boundless love that comes with parenthood, he described it as both beautiful and awe-inspiring, yet also something that has mysteriously transformed him.

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2024-11-26 10:25