When Christopher Reeve Wanted To Die After Accident But THESE Lines From Wife Dana Saved His Life

As a dedicated follower of Christopher Reeve‘s journey, I find myself deeply moved by his inspiring story of resilience and love. The man who once played Superman on the silver screen had to face an equally daunting challenge in real life – paralysis due to an equestrian accident. However, it was not the physical pain that seemed to break him, but the psychological turmoil that threatened to shatter his spirit.


Originally independent, this man rarely imagined needing help from others in any way – physically, financially, or emotionally. However, one fateful night, a horseback riding accident transformed his life in an instant, leaving him reliant on others for survival.

In his portrayal of Superman, Christopher Reeve inspired countless young people during his time. However, a pivotal moment in his life occurred when his perspective on life and joy were dramatically altered – this was not due to any physical change, but rather the emotional impact of an accident that left him paralyzed. This incident had profound psychological effects rather than just physical ones.

In a moment when he felt like giving up and just wanting to exist, rather than truly live, his family and friends served as unwavering pillars, particularly his wife, Dana Reeve. It was her support that helped him rediscover the joy of living and the courage not just to survive, but thrive. In an interview with USA Weekend in 1998, he even stated, “The mind and body are interconnected… Emotions can manifest physically, but if you maintain a positive outlook, combined with the faith and love from those around you, recovery happens faster.”

In the upcoming documentary Super/Man: The Christopher Reeve Story, we delve into the profound sadness that marked his life, a man who was truly a real-life hero. Tragically, he passed away in 2004 at the age of 52. Through this film, we see him expressing deep regret, stating “I destroyed my life and everyone else’s. I can no longer ski, sail, or play catch with Will. I can’t make love to Dana anymore. Perhaps it would be best if I let go.”

At this critical juncture, Dana Reeve, his loyal and affectionate spouse, uttered seven transformative phrases that significantly impacted him. These phrases instilled in Reeve a refreshed sense of personal value and optimism, enabling him to rediscover his zest for life. As Reeve reminisced, “And it was those words that rescued me from the brink. You’re still you. And I love you.”

Apart from being Christopher’s main care provider, Dana put her own career on hold to aid him during his recuperation and champion his cause as an advocate for the disabled. She was deeply committed to the Christopher Reeve Foundation, an organization dedicated to enhancing the daily lives of individuals with spinal cord injuries.

In the year 2006, I too bid farewell to this world, having waged a valiant fight against lung cancer. Yet, my spirit lives on, echoing through the frames of the documentary, as it portrays the profound influence I held in Christopher Reeve’s life. The children recount stories of my unwavering care for him and my steadfast support for their family during our shared journey through uncertainty.

In interviews, including one with Life in 1998 as reported by Capedwonder, Reeves frequently shared his deep affection for his cherished spouse. He expressed, “Dana never makes me feel guilty for the circumstances I’ve created. Our love is just as strong.” He added, “Regardless of my recovery status – be it zero or full – our relationship will endure. That’s truly remarkable.”

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2024-08-28 10:24