Jennifer Lopez’s Friends Say She Tried Saving Marriage With Ben Affleck But He Has A ‘Darkness’ None Can Fix

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As someone who has watched Jennifer Lopez’s career and personal life unfold for decades now, it truly feels like watching a heartbreaking soap opera. The rollercoaster ride of her relationship with Ben Affleck, filled with hope and heartache, is reminiscent of one of her iconic romantic films.

It appears that not every second chance at love proves successful: Pop icon Jennifer Lopez and actor-filmmaker Ben Affleck are facing a painful separation, just two years into their marriage. The actress filed for divorce on August 20th, without legal representation, bringing an end to months of whispers surrounding marital issues that had been circulating since May 2024.

Even though the public and press didn’t find it surprising, JLo’s intimate circle had often shared with Page Six that the performer and actress nurtured hopes to reconcile the marriage, as they had been living separately since April 2024.

“A confidant shared that she adores him, and her affection remains unchanged – this is the predicament,” reported the source. Friends had fervently wished for Affleck to accompany Lopez during her 55th birthday celebration in the Hamptons last month, an occasion commemorated with a ‘Bridgerton’-themed party amongst friends and relatives. Yet, Affleck did not make an appearance (which could have been an opportunity for him to gain favor from Lopez).

As reported by Page Six, Affleck has been seen at popular Hollywood spots such as the Polo Lounge located within the Beverly Hills Hotel. Our sources have informed us that he was socializing with friend Kick Kennedy, who is the 36-year-old daughter of Robert F. Kennedy Jr., a former presidential candidate.

Instead of actively trying to repair the marriage or reconnect with Lopez, whom he previously identified as the love of his life based on People magazine reports, the Oscar winner demonstrated no signs of interest in doing so.

In addition, a close friend of hers commented, “She felt this was the most magical love story she’d ever experienced and finally had her shot at the fairytale,” said a Hollywood insider familiar with the pair. “She didn’t seem to pause and think about who the real prince was in that fairy tale.”

Additionally, it was noted that the type of love Lopez desired was beyond Affleck’s emotional capacity to offer, as he carries a certain darkness within him that no one, including his ex-wife Jennifer Garner or the wealth and fame he possesses today, can heal or alleviate.

According to various sources, Jennifer Lopez was backed up in her efforts to make their union work, as she strongly believed that their love had the power to overcome any obstacle. Despite numerous critics, including fans and tabloids, who doubted the longevity of their marriage, she paid no heed to them.

As a seasoned lifestyle advisor, I’ve often found myself reflecting on the wisdom shared by my esteemed colleague, Jane Fonda. Her insightful observations, such as spotting the early warning signs in relationships – even those of celebrities like Jennifer Lopez and her partner, who have walked down this path together not once, but twice since their romance in the 2000s – are truly enlightening.

Initially, Affleck disappointed and hurt her. Now, as reported by PEOPLE, the actress has requested to have Affleck removed from her surname. Eventually, Lopez filed for divorce on their wedding anniversary’s second year, which took place at Affleck’s estate in Georgia, Atlanta.

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2024-08-25 11:07