Grey’s Anatomy puts friendship, rightfully, at the forefront

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This review contains spoilers for Grey’s Anatomy Season 21, episode 14 “Love in the Ice Age.”

In my humble opinion, “Grey’s Anatomy” truly shines by presenting a captivating blend of realistic, if at times intensely dramatic, romantic encounters – a trait that, given its genre, I can only affectionately label as ‘over-dramatic’. Yet, since the show’s inception, it has consistently excelled in crafting profound friendships among its characters, a testament to the series’ depth and emotional resonance.

This week’s episode shone brightly in the friendship aspects – yes, including the moments between Teddy and Owen; let’s delve into that later. The dynamic between Baily and Weber regarding Dr. Chase’s true character was at odds, but eventually, Bailey confessed her error for trusting him. Winston reluctantly accompanied Blue to a baseball game – it felt like the classic scenario of “he says he doesn’t want a pet but ends up loving them the most.” Even Ben appears to be flourishing – something he’s always been good at, and we’re glad to see that for him.

In summary, although Teddy and Owen faced marital strife, it’s important to remember their friendship came first. Could their bond have started as a result of shared traumas evolving into a genuine connection, eventually leading to romance? That’s a possibility. However, prior to their marriage and family life, they were already quite close. They share an understanding that surpasses what others in their lives might be able to achieve (even Owen’s numerous exes).

Deep down, Teddy’s jealousy over Owen dating other women (even though she allowed it, but still) could stem from a fear. This isn’t necessarily about losing Owen as a husband, but potentially losing him as a friend. Their romantic relationship may not endure in the long run, and given the show’s history, such longevity is unusual for its relationships. However, let’s focus on their friendship – that could be something worth preserving, even if their romance doesn’t last forever. (Meredith and Cristina’s friendship is the longest-lasting so far in the show, but this aspect will be further explored at a later time.)

Occasionally, the hardest aspect of a breakup isn’t just losing a lover, but rather losing someone incredibly close – a friend who truly understood you, perhaps even better than you understand yourself. While some ex-lovers manage to maintain friendship, many do not. This type of heartache doesn’t mend quickly.

It seems that I’m no longer hoping for a romantic connection between them, as I’ve chosen not to invest too deeply emotionally nowadays. However, I wholeheartedly support their friendship enduring forever. Grey’s Anatomy, could you provide us with a heartwarming moment to cherish, even if it’s just this time around?

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2025-04-14 18:14