Actors Who Successfully Erased Their Secret Starter Marriages Before Fame

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Before becoming famous, many leading men in Hollywood went through important life events, including marriage. These early marriages are often seen as stepping stones, happening before their careers took off. While the public usually pays attention to their current relationships, these first marriages are often forgotten. It can be surprising for fans to learn their favorite stars had entire relationships before achieving fame and signing big contracts. These lesser-known stories offer a fascinating look at the early lives of some of the most well-known actors.

George Clooney

Before becoming famous for seemingly avoiding long-term relationships, George Clooney was married to actress Talia Balsam. They married in Las Vegas in 1989 and divorced about four years later. This was early in Clooney’s career, before he achieved mainstream success in television and film. He’s since said he wasn’t ready for a serious relationship at that time. Today, most people only think of his marriage to Amal Clooney when they consider his romantic life.

Tom Hanks

Before becoming a Hollywood icon, Tom Hanks was married to his college sweetheart, Samantha Lewes, from 1978 to 1987. They had two children together while Hanks was starting his acting career, appearing on shows like ‘Bosom Buddies’ and beginning to work in movies. Shortly after their divorce, Hanks married Rita Wilson, and they’ve been together ever since. His first marriage to Samantha Lewes is seldom discussed in interviews or when looking back on his career.

Harrison Ford

Harrison Ford and Mary Marquardt were married for fifteen years, from 1964 until 1979. They supported each other through Ford’s early struggles as an actor and his time working as a carpenter. Marquardt was with him when he got the part of Han Solo in ‘Star Wars,’ which launched his career. The couple divorced right as Ford was becoming a world-famous star. Because of his later, more publicized marriages, their long relationship is often overlooked.

Will Smith

Will Smith’s relationship with Jada Pinkett Smith often gets a lot of attention, but he was married before her, to Sheree Zampino. They married in 1992, had a son together, and divorced in 1995, during the popular run of his TV show, ‘The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air.’ Smith has since discussed the challenges of that first divorce and what he learned from the experience. It’s easy to forget, given his later fame, that he was first married as he was becoming a superstar.

Daniel Craig

Before becoming famous as James Bond, Daniel Craig was married to Fiona Loudon. They married in 1992, had a daughter together, and divorced in 1994. At the time, Craig was mainly working in theater and on smaller TV projects in the UK. He’s generally kept his personal life private, and many people are only aware of his later, long-term marriage to actress Rachel Weisz.

Patrick Dempsey

The actor best known for ‘Grey’s Anatomy’ had a surprisingly unusual first marriage to Rocky Parker. He was only twenty-one when they married in 1987, and she was significantly older. Parker also managed his career and was already close to him as the mother of one of his best friends. The couple divorced in 1994 after seven years, and the split was reportedly difficult. Later, the actor remarried and seemed to intentionally downplay this early part of his life.

Johnny Depp

Before he became famous for his legal issues and relationships, Johnny Depp was married to a makeup artist named Lori Anne Allison. They wed in 1983 when he was just twenty years old and pursuing a music career. Interestingly, she introduced him to Nicolas Cage, who then helped Depp land his first acting role in ‘A Nightmare on Elm Street’. The couple was married for only two years, and the relationship ended well before his rise to fame on ‘21 Jump Street’. This early marriage is rarely mentioned when discussing his successful career.

Idris Elba

Idris Elba, known for his role in ‘Luther’, was married to Hanne Nørgaard from 1999 to 2003. They moved to the United States together when he was starting his acting career, around the time he began getting noticed for his work on ‘The Wire’. While he’s had other, more publicized relationships since then, many fans don’t realize he was married as he was first establishing himself in the American entertainment industry.

Gary Oldman

Gary Oldman has been married multiple times, and his first wife was actress Lesley Manville. They married in 1987 and had a son together, but their marriage ended quickly in 1989, just months after their son’s birth. This happened as Oldman’s career was starting to take off in Hollywood. Manville herself has since become a highly acclaimed actress, even earning an Academy Award nomination. Their short marriage isn’t widely known, considering Oldman’s long and successful career.

Robert Downey Jr.

Before becoming famous as Iron Man, Robert Downey Jr. was married to actress and singer Deborah Falconer. They married in 1992 after a very short courtship of just forty-two days and were married for more than ten years. The relationship suffered due to Downey Jr.’s well-known personal difficulties in the late 1990s. They divorced in 2004, shortly before he met his now-wife, Susan Downey, while filming ‘Gothika’. Today, most people are familiar with the happy and stable life he’s built with Susan.

Bryan Cranston

Bryan Cranston, known for his role in ‘Breaking Bad,’ was married to Mickey Middleton for five years in the late 1970s and early 1980s. He’s said the relationship happened when he was young and still figuring out what he wanted in a partner. The marriage ended on good terms before he became famous on TV. He later married Robin Dearden in 1989, and they’ve been together ever since. His first marriage is now a relatively unimportant part of his life story.

Jeff Goldblum

Jeff Goldblum and his ‘Silverado’ costar, Patricia Gaul, were married for six years in the mid-1980s, early in his acting career. He later married Geena Davis, but that marriage also ended after a few years. More recently, he’s been married to Emilie Livingston, and they’ve built a family together. It’s easy to overlook that Goldblum was married twice before finding his current long-term partner.

Pierce Brosnan

Before becoming a world-famous James Bond, Pierce Brosnan was married to Cassandra Harris. They wed in 1980 and stayed together until her death in 1991. Interestingly, Harris had previously appeared as a ‘Bond girl’ and actually supported Brosnan’s ambition to one day play the iconic spy. Though their marriage was important to him, it’s often less discussed than his later, long-term relationship with Keely Shaye Smith. Those who followed Brosnan’s career from the beginning fondly recall the strong connection he had with his first wife.

Sylvester Stallone

Sylvester Stallone married Sasha Czack in 1974, before he became famous. He was still working hard to get the movie ‘Rocky’ made at the time. Czack was a key photographer on the film and supported him as his career began to take off. They had two sons and were married for more than ten years before divorcing in 1985. Stallone’s later marriages to Brigitte Nielsen and Jennifer Flavin received a lot more attention from the tabloids.

Michael Douglas

Before marrying Catherine Zeta-Jones, Michael Douglas was married to Diandra Luker for over twenty years. They wed in 1977, when he was thirty-two and she was nineteen, a time that coincided with the peak of his film success. They had one son together and later divorced in 2000 in a highly publicized and costly legal battle. Many people today don’t realize he was married to Diandra Luker for so long.

Clint Eastwood

Clint Eastwood and Maggie Johnson were married for over thirty years, beginning in 1953, long before he became famous for shows like ‘Rawhide’ and his work in spaghetti westerns. Their marriage faced challenges with frequent time apart and public speculation about his personal life. They divorced in 1984 and had two children together. While many people today know him for his later relationships, particularly his second marriage to Dina Eastwood, he shared a long history with Maggie Johnson.

Kevin Costner

Kevin Costner and his college sweetheart, Cindy Silva, were married for sixteen years, from 1978 until 1994. Cindy supported him as his career took off, and they had three children together. Their divorce was highly publicized and involved a significant financial settlement. This happened during a period when Costner faced some challenges in his career. Years later, he married Christine Baumgartner.

Dennis Quaid

The actor was first married to P. J. Soles from 1978 to 1983, around the time his career began to take off with films like ‘Breaking Away’. However, he’s far better known for his decade-long marriage to Meg Ryan, which was a constant subject of media attention throughout the nineties. He’s married multiple times since then, and his initial marriage is often forgotten. For many, he’s simply remembered as one half of a famous Hollywood power couple.

Woody Harrelson

Woody Harrelson had a short and somewhat strange marriage to Nancy Simon, the daughter of famous playwright Neil Simon, in 1985. They eloped to Tijuana with the plan to divorce almost immediately, but the divorce office was unexpectedly closed. As a result, they remained married for ten months before officially getting divorced. Harrelson later married Laura Louie, and they’ve been together for many years.

Charlie Sheen

Before his well-known marriage to Denise Richards, Charlie Sheen was briefly married to Donna Peele. They met while filming a commercial in 1995 and divorced after only six months. This happened early in his career, before he became famous for his television roles. Since then, Sheen has had many other high-profile relationships, causing most people to forget about his first, short-lived marriage. Few remember he was married before the year 2000.

Jeremy Renner

Actor Jeremy Renner and Sonni Pacheco were married for a short time in 2014, after having a daughter together. The marriage ended after less than a year when Pacheco filed for divorce, citing differences that couldn’t be resolved. Their relationship remained largely out of the public eye until the divorce became a complex legal matter. Since then, Renner has prioritized his career and fatherhood, and has generally kept his personal life private. Many people are surprised to discover that the actor was once married.

James Marsden

James Marsden, known for his role in ‘X-Men,’ was married to Lisa Linde, the daughter of a well-known songwriter, for more than ten years, beginning in 2000. They had two children together and their marriage lasted throughout Marsden’s growing success in Hollywood films and TV shows. Their divorce in 2011 came as a surprise to many, as they were seen as a solid couple. Since then, Marsden has continued to work as a successful actor and has been in other relationships.

Jude Law

Before becoming known for his highly publicized relationships, Jude Law was married to actress Sadie Frost. They wed in 1997 and had three children during his rise to fame. Their marriage was a prominent feature of London’s social life in the late 1990s and early 2000s. They divorced in 2003, coinciding with increased international attention on his career. Today, many people primarily remember his relationships with Sienna Miller or his later marriage to Phillipa Coan.

Ewan McGregor

I was really surprised to hear about Ewan McGregor’s divorce. He and Eve Mavrakis were together for twenty-two years – they actually met on a TV set and got married back in ’95, before Ewan became the huge star he is today. They built a family, raising four daughters, and honestly, they always seemed like one of those rock-solid Hollywood couples. It was sad when they announced their split in 2017, and the divorce took a few years to finalize. I’ve noticed he’s now married to his ‘Birds of Prey’ costar, Mary Elizabeth Winstead, which seems to be going well, but it’s still a bit strange after such a long marriage with Eve.

Chris Pratt

It’s easy to focus on Chris Pratt’s marriage to Anna Faris, but I always remember where he was in his career when they first got together. Back in 2009, he was still that charming guy from ‘Parks and Recreation,’ not yet the blockbuster star he’d become. It was fascinating to watch him blossom into a leading man with ‘Guardians of the Galaxy’ and ‘Jurassic World’ while he was married to Anna. They seemed genuinely happy, which made their 2018 divorce a bit of a shock to many of us. Now, he’s found happiness again with Katherine Schwarzenegger, and it’s clear he’s moved on to a really positive new phase of his life.

Channing Tatum

The actor and Jenna Dewan, his ‘Step Up’ co-star, were married for nine years. They first met and connected while filming the movie that made them both famous, and tied the knot in 2009. The couple became a Hollywood favorite, and their relationship was often followed by the media. They announced they were separating in 2018 and quickly finalized their divorce. Since then, Tatum has been linked to other well-known partners, including a significant relationship with Zoë Kravitz.

Laurence Fishburne

Laurence Fishburne, known for his role in ‘The Matrix’, was married to Hajna O. Moss for seven years, from 1985 to 1992. They had two children while he was building his career as an actor. This first marriage happened well before he became famous as Morpheus. He later married Gina Torres, and they were together for many years before divorcing. The media rarely talks about his early marriage.

Morgan Freeman

The celebrated actor was married to Jeanette Adair Bradshaw from 1967 to 1979, well before he achieved fame with his successful films in the late 1980s. He then married Myrna Colley-Lee in 1984, and they remained married for over two decades before divorcing. Many people only know him from his later career and his distinctive voice.

Forest Whitaker

As a film fan, I always admired Forest Whitaker, both for his incredible performances and his long marriage to Keisha Nash. They actually met while filming ‘Blown Away,’ which is a fun bit of trivia! They were married for over twenty years and had two daughters together, and I remember seeing them often on red carpets during his Oscar-winning run. It was sad to hear they filed for divorce in 2018, citing irreconcilable differences. It really seemed like their relationship was a constant throughout his amazing career, and it’s always tough to see a long-term marriage end.

Antonio Banderas

Before becoming famous for his marriage to Melanie Griffith, Antonio Banderas was married to Ana Leza. They married in 1987, and she supported his move from Spanish films to Hollywood. She even translated for him when he first arrived in the United States, as he wasn’t yet fluent in English. The couple divorced in 1996, just as Banderas’s career was taking off. Because of his subsequent, high-profile relationship with Griffith, many people have forgotten about his marriage to Leza.

John Leguizamo

The actor was briefly married to Yelba Osorio in the mid-1990s, from 1994 to 1996. This occurred as his career was taking off with films like ‘To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything! Julie Newmar’. It was a short marriage and is rarely mentioned when discussing his life and work. He later married Justine Maurer in 2003, and they are still together. His first marriage remains a relatively unknown detail in his successful career.

Jean Dujardin

I’ve always been fascinated by Jean Dujardin! Before he charmed the world in ‘The Artist’ and won an Oscar, he lived a full life. He and Gaëlle Demars were together for years, raising two wonderful sons, but they eventually separated in 2003. Back then, he was mostly known as a funny man in France – I loved his early comedic roles! Then, everyone in France was talking about his relationship with Alexandra Lamy, which was quite a moment. Now, he’s happily married to Nathalie Péchalat and continues to impress audiences internationally. It’s wonderful to see his continued success!

Guillaume Canet

French actor and director Guillaume Canet was married to Diane Kruger from 2001 to 2006. Before either of them became widely known internationally, they were a popular couple in European film. Their marriage ended on good terms as their careers led them to work in different parts of the world. Canet later began a long-term relationship with Marion Cotillard, and they now have two children. While many American audiences may recognize him through his work with Cotillard, he has a significant career beyond that.

Hiroyuki Sanada

Hiroyuki Sanada was married to Japanese actress Satomi Tezuka for seven years, from 1990 to 1997. They had two children together. This marriage took place when Sanada was already a huge star in Japan, but before he became well-known in Hollywood. He later gained international recognition for roles in films like ‘The Last Samurai’ and ‘Shogun’. He generally doesn’t discuss his personal life in Japan during interviews with international media.

Diego Luna

Diego Luna, known for his role in ‘Andor,’ was married to Mexican actress and singer Camila Sodi from 2008 to 2013. They have two children together and were a well-loved couple in Latin America. While their divorce was kept private, they’ve continued to raise their children together amicably. Luna’s success in large international film series has since drawn attention away from his earlier personal life, and many of his newer fans don’t know about his relationship with Sodi.

Ben Stiller

The comedian and director was married to actress Christine Taylor for 18 years, and they initially separated before later getting back together. They first met on a TV show set and married in 2000, then co-starred in films like ‘Zoolander’ and ‘Dodgeball’. Although they announced a split in 2017, they rekindled their relationship during the pandemic and are still married. It’s easy to forget they were once separated, as many people are unaware of that period in their relationship.

Tom Cruise

Everyone remembers Tom Cruise being married to Nicole Kidman and Katie Holmes – those were huge deals in the media! But before them, he was married to Mimi Rogers. They actually got married back in 1987, right after ‘Top Gun’ made him a big star. A lot of people say Mimi was the one who first introduced him to Scientology, which has clearly been a huge part of his life ever since. They divorced in 1990, just before he met Nicole. Honestly, because his later marriages were so massive, it’s easy to forget he was ever married to Mimi in the first place!

Richard Gere

Richard Gere was famously married to supermodel Cindy Crawford for four years in the early 1990s. They were a highly publicized and popular couple, but their marriage ended in 1995. Both have since found long-term partners – Gere married Carey Lowell and then Alejandra Silva, with whom he now has children. Many younger people today don’t remember when Gere and Crawford were one of the world’s most famous couples.

Bradley Cooper

Bradley Cooper was briefly married to actress Jennifer Esposito in 2006, but the marriage only lasted four months before they divorced in 2007. This happened early in his career, as he was starting to become a major movie star. Esposito wrote about their relationship in her memoir, while Cooper has rarely spoken about it publicly. His more famous relationships later on have largely overshadowed this short-lived first marriage.

Ryan Reynolds

Before marrying Blake Lively, Ryan Reynolds was married to Scarlett Johansson. They had a private wedding in 2008 but divorced after about two years. The couple generally kept to themselves and weren’t often seen together publicly. They announced their split in late 2010 and both went on to marry other famous people. It’s surprising to many fans now that these two big stars were once married to each other.

Russell Brand

Comedian and actor Russell Brand was married to Katy Perry for just over a year. Their lavish wedding in India in 2010 attracted a lot of attention from the media worldwide. The marriage ended abruptly when Brand sent Perry a text message ending things right before she was due to perform in concert. They finalized their divorce in 2012, and both have discussed the challenges they faced during that time. Since then, Brand has remarried and noticeably changed his public persona, moving away from his previous Hollywood image.

Jim Carrey

The comedian and his first wife, Melissa Womer, were married for eight years, from 1987 to 1995. They met when she was a waitress at The Comedy Store, where he honed his skills as a new stand-up comic. They had a daughter together before his breakout role in ‘Ace Ventura: Pet Detective’ launched him to stardom. Their divorce happened around the time he became a hugely successful and highly-paid actor. He later married Lauren Holly, but those early marriages are often overlooked.

Damon Wayans

I’ve always been a huge fan of Wayne Brady, and I recently learned more about his personal life. He and Lisa Thorner were married for sixteen years, starting back in 1984 – that’s amazing! They built a beautiful family together, having four kids, including his son, Damon Wayans Jr. It’s a little sad they divorced in 2000, but it spanned all of his biggest years as a star on TV and in movies. It’s funny, though – you hear so much about his wonderful, big family now, but not many people talk about his first marriage. I think it deserves to be remembered too, considering how long they were together.

Chris Rock

The celebrated comedian and Malaak Compton-Landis were married for almost twenty years, from 1996 until 2014. During that time, they had two daughters and his career soared. They were well-known figures in Hollywood for two decades before deciding to separate, and their divorce was completed in 2016. He has since incorporated details of the experience into his comedy routines. Some newer fans may not be aware of the length of his marriage.

Marlon Wayans

Damon Wayans and Angelica Zachary were together for more than ten years. Though the media often reported they were married, they actually had a private, committed relationship. They share two children and have stayed close friends since separating in 2013. Wayans often speaks fondly of Zachary in interviews and on social media, showing continued respect and affection. Their relationship was a strong, lasting connection that predates his recent success as a solo performer.

Paul Hogan

Paul Hogan, known for ‘Crocodile Dundee,’ and Noelene Edwards had a complex relationship spanning almost thirty years. They married in 1958, divorced in 1981, and then surprisingly remarried less than a year later. Their second marriage ended in a highly publicized and difficult divorce in 1986, coinciding with Hogan’s rise to international fame. He famously left Edwards for his ‘Crocodile Dundee’ co-star, Linda Kozlowski, causing a scandal in Australia. While many international fans are aware of his relationship with Kozlowski, fewer know about his long and complicated marriage to Edwards.

Michael Caine

Sir Michael Caine was first married to Patricia Haines from 1954 to 1962, before he became famous. They had a daughter together, but faced hardship due to money problems and Caine’s early struggles as an actor, still using his original name. He later found lasting love with Shakira Baksh, whom he married in 1973, and they’ve remained a prominent Hollywood couple ever since. His first marriage now feels like a distant part of his remarkable life.

Anthony Hopkins

Before his later, longer marriages, the Oscar-winning actor was married to Petronella Barker from 1966 to 1972. They had one daughter together early in his acting career. The relationship was challenging, as Hopkins dealt with personal problems and the stress of becoming famous. Soon after their divorce, he moved to the United States and married Jennifer Lynton. Many people are unaware that he has a daughter from his first marriage.

Sean Connery

Sean Connery, the first actor to play James Bond in the movies, was married to Diane Cilento from 1962 to 1973. Their relationship began as Connery rose to international fame with the early Bond films, but it was known for being turbulent. They had one son together before divorcing. In 1975, Connery married Micheline Roquebrune, and they stayed together for the rest of his life. While his second marriage was long and happy, his first marriage to Cilento is often overlooked.

Kiefer Sutherland

Kiefer Sutherland was married to Camelia Kath from 1987 to 1990. Kath was a widow and twelve years older than Sutherland when they married. They had a daughter together, but divorced around the time Sutherland became known as a member of the ‘Brat Pack.’ He then became engaged to Julia Roberts, but that relationship didn’t last either. Many people are more familiar with his later work and the fact that his father was also a famous actor.

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