John Mulaney’s Ex-wife Anna Marie Tendler Recalls Mental Health Struggles And Psychiatric Stay In Upcoming Memoir

Anna Marie Tendler details her experience at a psychiatric facility

In her novel, Tendler describes how she sought refuge in a women-only facility upon the suggestion of her therapist, who was uncertain about how to help her. However, according to an excerpt from Elle, Tendler had made arrangements to stay at this facility prior to her visit due to her discomfort around men at that point in time. Contrary to her plans, her therapist had advised against it.

In early 2021, Tendler admitted herself into a facility for her own wellbeing, with her husband Mulaney undergoing treatment for alcohol and cocaine addiction at the time.

In her published work, Tendler describes her experience of being questioned about past physical and sexual abuse by a hospital therapist. She also shares how it felt less daunting to share her pain with an unfamiliar person. Regarding her prior suicide contemplations, Tendler acknowledges she had composed a suicide note beforehand, yet she had no intention of ending her life. Instead, she employed self-harm as a means to alleviate her depression and anxiety symptoms.

“I had thoughts of taking my own life, but instead, I inflicted wounds on myself, not with the intention of ending it.”

During her difficult periods, Tendler surprisingly maintained her optimism, sharing with a nurse her desire, “I hope to eventually find strength within me to cope with challenges without succumbing to self-destruction.”

At that point in time, the 39-year-old expressed great pride in her work, stating it was a tale encompassing mental health, womanhood, family, and most significantly, her longstanding frustration and anger towards men. (Instagram post about her book)

Tendler mentioned that she’d been working on this book for two years, yet it seemed like she’d been crafting it for her entire life.

As an obsessed fan of mental health awareness and someone who has been there myself, I deeply urge you to extend a helping hand if you come across someone battling suicidal thoughts, anxiety, depression, or any serious mental health issue. Don’t hesitate! Reach out to nearby medical professionals, mental health experts, or local NGOs for immediate assistance. These resources are readily available and can make all the difference in someone’s life. Trust me; your support could be the crucial first step towards their healing journey.