Women Who Became Icons After Being Told They Weren’t Pretty Enough

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The entertainment world is known for valuing appearance, and many incredibly talented women have been overlooked because they didn’t fit a certain image. In fact, some of today’s biggest stars in film, music, and fashion were initially rejected for not being considered traditionally beautiful. These women proved that personality and skill are more important than looks, and their success shows how perseverance can overcome a focus on image in a demanding industry.

Meryl Streep

During an audition for the 1976 film ‘King Kong’, producer Dino De Laurentiis allegedly asked his son in Italian why he’d brought someone so “unattractive.” Meryl Streep, who speaks Italian, cleverly replied in the same language that she was sorry she didn’t meet his standards of beauty for the role. Despite this harsh initial rejection, Streep went on to receive more Academy Award nominations than any other actor in history. She’s become a standard for acting brilliance, delivering memorable performances in films like ‘Sophie’s Choice’ and ‘The Devil Wears Prada,’ and is now considered one of the best actors of her generation.

Lady Gaga

Before becoming a global superstar, Lady Gaga faced criticism from music industry leaders who doubted her appearance fit the typical pop star image. She’s shared how they suggested she get plastic surgery and felt pressured to look more conventionally beautiful. However, instead of changing herself, Gaga embraced a unique and unconventional style. Her critically acclaimed role in ‘A Star Is Born’ proved her talent went beyond looks. She’s since achieved significant recognition, winning multiple Grammy Awards and an Oscar for her songwriting and acting abilities.

Winona Ryder

When Winona Ryder was starting out as an actress, a casting director bluntly told her she wasn’t attractive enough to succeed and suggested she return home and go back to school. Ryder didn’t listen and eventually got her big break in ‘Beetlejuice.’ She became a prominent actress of the 1990s, starring in films like ‘Heathers’ and ‘Little Women,’ and has recently experienced a career revival with the hit series ‘Stranger Things’.

Barbra Streisand

Early in her career, Barbra Streisand was repeatedly urged to get a nose job. People in the industry thought her unique appearance would hold her back from becoming a major movie star. However, Streisand stood firm, believing her natural features were essential to who she was and her ability to perform. She ultimately proved them wrong, winning an Oscar for her first film, ‘Funny Girl’. Now, she’s one of the rare entertainers to have won an Emmy, a Grammy, an Oscar, and a Tony Award – known as EGOT status.

Viola Davis

Viola Davis often speaks about how Black women in Hollywood are often overlooked if they don’t fit typical beauty standards. Early in her career, she was told she wasn’t considered conventionally attractive enough for some romantic roles. Despite this, she continued to act, giving incredibly strong performances in films like ‘Doubt’ and ‘The Help’. She eventually won an Oscar for ‘Fences’ and became well-known for her role in the TV series ‘How to Get Away with Murder’. Davis continues to champion the importance of diversity and recognizing talent, rather than focusing solely on appearance.

Sarah Jessica Parker

Even though Sarah Jessica Parker achieved huge fame with ‘Sex and the City’, she’s often faced critical comments about how she looks. In 2007, Maxim magazine controversially labeled her the “Unsexiest Woman Alive,” which deeply upset her. Despite this, she continued to thrive as a fashion icon and admired actress. Her role as Carrie Bradshaw set a new standard for what it meant to be an ‘it-girl,’ focusing on personal style and character rather than traditional beauty standards. She continues to be a well-known figure in the entertainment world, now with the show ‘And Just Like That…’

Kate Winslet

When Kate Winslet was studying acting, a teacher suggested she’d only find success playing characters defined by their weight. This hurtful comment about her appearance followed her as she began her career. Instead of accepting these limitations, she landed the leading role in ‘Titanic,’ which became a massive box office hit. Since then, Winslet has won an Oscar and several Emmys, consistently choosing complex and emotionally challenging roles. She now actively speaks out against body shaming and the practice of altering photos in the media.

Mindy Kaling

Before becoming famous for ‘The Office’, Mindy Kaling faced harsh criticism when a TV network told her she wasn’t attractive enough to portray herself in a comedy sketch show. Surprisingly, they even asked her to audition for a role based on her own life, then rejected her because of her looks. This experience fueled Kaling to create her own projects, leading to her writing and starring in ‘The Mindy Project’. She’s now a successful producer, writer, and author, and her work often focuses on the stories of women who don’t fit traditional Hollywood beauty standards.

Reese Witherspoon

Early in her career, when Reese Witherspoon moved to Los Angeles, she often faced rejection at auditions because she didn’t fit the typical Hollywood mold – she was told she wasn’t tall or conventionally pretty enough for lead roles. She was frequently compared to other actresses who were considered more marketable. Instead of giving up, Witherspoon dedicated herself to improving her acting and eventually became a successful actress and producer. She won an Oscar for her performance in ‘Walk the Line’ and has since produced popular shows like ‘Big Little Lies.’ Through her production company, Hello Sunshine, she champions stories centered around women.

Jessica Chastain

Jessica Chastain faced years of rejection early in her career, with producers often saying she didn’t fit conventional beauty standards or that her red hair was too noticeable. Before she became well-known, casting directors struggled to find the right roles for her. Her performances in films like ‘The Help’ and ‘Zero Dark Thirty’ finally showcased her talent and ability to captivate audiences. She later won an Academy Award for ‘The Eyes of Tammy Faye’ and is now recognized as one of today’s most powerful and respected actors.

Lea Michele

When Lea Michele was 15, a manager suggested she get a nose job to improve her chances of appearing on television. However, her mother advised against it, pointing to Barbra Streisand as proof that a woman could be successful without changing her natural appearance. Michele first achieved fame on Broadway before landing her iconic role as Rachel Berry on the TV show ‘Glee,’ where her unique look and incredible voice were key parts of the character. She later returned to Broadway to star in a new production of ‘Funny Girl’.

Gisele Bündchen

Gisele Bündchen, now one of the world’s most famous supermodels, faced a lot of rejection when she started out. She was turned down by agencies 42 times, with some telling her her features weren’t right for magazine covers. But she didn’t give up, and a runway show with Alexander McQueen helped launch her career. Eventually, her fit and healthy look changed the fashion industry, moving away from the very thin “heroin chic” style. For fifteen years straight, she was the highest-paid model in the world.

Kat Dennings

When Kat Dennings first started acting, casting directors frequently told her she needed a complete makeover to get roles. They suggested things like teeth whitening, getting a tan, and losing weight to achieve the typical “L.A. look.” However, Dennings chose to stay true to herself, keeping her natural appearance and smile. This decision didn’t hold her back – she went on to star in films like ‘Thor’ and the popular TV show ‘2 Broke Girls.’ Her distinctive look and talent for comedy quickly made her a beloved figure in the entertainment world.

Nia Vardalos

Nia Vardalos faced rejection early in her career, with agents telling her she didn’t fit the typical mold for leading roles or even supporting characters. Determined to create her own opportunities, she wrote a play about her life. This play impressed Rita Wilson and was later developed into the hugely successful film ‘My Big Fat Greek Wedding.’ Vardalos starred in the film and was nominated for an Oscar for her writing, demonstrating a strong demand for stories with authentic, everyday characters.

Liza Minnelli

Growing up as Judy Garland’s daughter, Liza Minnelli was constantly compared to her mother and judged for her distinctive looks. Some critics pointed out her large eyes and unique facial features, claiming she didn’t fit the traditional Hollywood mold. Instead of trying to conform, Minnelli embraced her individuality and became a major star in both theater and film. Her role in ‘Cabaret’ won her an Academy Award and established her as a true icon. Remarkably, she’s one of the rare performers to have earned an Oscar, Emmy, Grammy, and Tony Award.

Bette Davis

When Bette Davis first started at Universal Studios, a producer bluntly told her she lacked sex appeal, comparing her to character actor Slim Summerville. She was advised that her appearance wasn’t considered conventionally attractive for film. Davis later found success at Warner Bros., where her powerful acting and striking eyes became her signature. Over her career, she won two Academy Awards and earned ten nominations in total. Today, she’s celebrated as a true icon of the movies.

Gabourey Sidibe

Gabourey Sidibe received harsh criticism about her weight and appearance after gaining recognition in ‘Precious’. Some people in the media predicted she wouldn’t have a lasting career because she didn’t conform to typical Hollywood beauty standards. However, Sidibe defied those expectations, consistently working in television shows like ‘Empire’ and ‘American Horror Story’. She’s also become a successful author and a well-known advocate for body positivity, proving that her talent and personality are the keys to her continued success.

Jennifer Lawrence

Early in her career, Jennifer Lawrence faced pressure from producers who told her she needed to lose weight to fit Hollywood’s standards. She recalls being shown pictures of herself and encouraged to diet, but she resisted. Lawrence prioritized her health and maintained her natural physique. This ultimately didn’t hinder her success – she went on to star in the hugely popular ‘Hunger Games’ series and won an Oscar for ‘Silver Linings Playbook’. Today, she’s one of the world’s most successful and admired actresses.

Adele

At the start of her career, Adele often faced criticism about her appearance, which didn’t fit the usual image of a pop star. Some people thought this would hurt her chances of success in an industry that values looks. However, Adele concentrated on her incredible voice and songwriting, and her albums – ’19’, ’21’, and ’25’ – became hugely popular. She’s won many Grammy Awards and become one of the best-selling artists ever, and her success helped the music industry prioritize genuine talent again.

Lupita Nyong’o

Lupita Nyong’o has openly discussed feeling insecure about her dark skin growing up, as mainstream media rarely celebrated it. She even admitted to praying for lighter skin, influenced by limited beauty standards. However, her breakthrough role in ’12 Years a Slave’ earned her worldwide recognition, including an Academy Award. Since then, she’s become a fashion icon and a powerful voice for embracing dark skin. Through her appearances in magazines and films like ‘Black Panther,’ she’s helped to redefine global ideas of beauty.

Sissy Spacek

When Sissy Spacek first started acting, she was told her freckles and natural appearance weren’t glamorous enough for Hollywood. People suggested she cover them up to fit a more conventional image of a star. But Spacek stayed true to herself, and her distinctive look actually helped her land memorable roles in films like ‘Carrie’ and ‘Coal Miner’s Daughter’. She even won an Academy Award for her performance in ‘Coal Miner’s Daughter’ and is now celebrated as one of the most gifted actors of her generation.

Glenn Close

Glenn Close is a remarkably talented actress who, early in her career, was told she didn’t fit the typical Hollywood image of a leading lady. She was even told she wasn’t considered “sexually attractive” enough for some roles. Instead of letting those comments discourage her, she persevered and gave unforgettable performances in films like ‘Fatal Attraction’ and ‘Dangerous Liaisons’. Throughout her career, Close has earned eight Academy Award nominations and numerous Emmy and Tony Awards, solidifying her reputation as a versatile and powerful force in acting.

Hilary Swank

Early in her career, Hilary Swank often faced rejection because casting directors didn’t think she looked traditionally “pretty” or “feminine” enough for many roles. People frequently described her appearance as androgynous, which limited her opportunities for typical leading lady parts. However, she turned this into an advantage when she landed the role in ‘Boys Don’t Cry,’ a part that called for a complete transformation. She won her first Oscar for that performance, and later a second for ‘Million Dollar Baby.’ Throughout her career, Swank has become known for fully immersing herself in challenging and physically demanding roles.

Uzo Aduba

Uzo Aduba used to be insecure about her gap-toothed smile, as she was often told it wasn’t considered beautiful. She even asked her mother for braces, but her mother encouraged her to embrace it as a special part of herself. Ultimately, that unique smile became a defining characteristic when she played Suzanne “Crazy Eyes” Warren on ‘Orange Is the New Black’, a role that brought her two Emmy Awards and worldwide recognition. Today, she’s a highly acclaimed actress in film, television, and on stage.

Winnie Harlow

Winnie Harlow experienced intense bullying growing up because of her vitiligo, a skin condition that causes patches of lost pigment. Kids often called her names and compared her to animals, which was very hurtful. Instead of letting it stop her, she decided to become a model and was first noticed on ‘America’s Next Top Model.’ Now, she’s a major fashion icon, working with top designers and appearing in campaigns worldwide. Her success has helped create more diversity and inclusivity in the fashion world.

Lizzo

Since becoming famous, Lizzo has dealt with a lot of criticism and online harassment about her body. People often call her appearance “unhealthy” or say she doesn’t fit the typical image of a pop star. Lizzo consistently fights back by promoting self-love and body positivity, and confidently showing off her body. Despite the negativity, her music has been hugely successful, earning her numerous Grammy Awards. She continues to be a strong role model, especially for those who rarely see themselves represented in the media.

Chrissy Teigen

Chrissy Teigen faced early rejection in her modeling career when Forever 21 fired her, telling her agency she was “too fat” and looked “terrible” in photos. Despite this setback, Teigen persevered and went on to achieve success as a model, notably with ‘Sports Illustrated.’ She later expanded her career into media, becoming a popular television host, cookbook author, and personality known for her honesty and openness.

Florence Pugh

When Florence Pugh got her first major TV role in the US, she was pressured to change her appearance. Studio executives suggested she lose weight and alter her facial features to be more appealing to a wider audience. Pugh worried that making those changes would mean they weren’t hiring her – the actress they’d originally chosen. She decided to return to the UK, where she landed the role in ‘Lady Macbeth,’ which helped launch her career internationally. Now, she’s an Academy Award nominee and a prominent star in the Marvel movies.

Anya Taylor-Joy

You know, it’s amazing how things change. I recently read that Anya Taylor-Joy was actually bullied as a kid because of how far apart her eyes are – people told her she looked ‘weird’! She said she used to avoid mirrors for ages because of it. But honestly, that very thing that made her self-conscious turned out to be her superpower. It’s what gives her such a captivating and unforgettable presence on screen, especially in films like ‘The Witch’ and ‘The Queen’s Gambit’. Now, she’s one of the biggest actresses around, and everyone celebrates that unique look they used to make fun of. It just goes to show you, what makes you different can also make you extraordinary.

Greta Gerwig

Early in her career, Greta Gerwig was told she didn’t fit the typical look of a leading actress and was often cast as supporting characters, like the best friend or quirky sidekick, in independent films. Determined to tell her own stories, she transitioned to writing and directing. Her films, including ‘Lady Bird’ and ‘Little Women’, were highly praised and earned numerous Academy Award nominations. In 2023, she directed ‘Barbie’, which became a worldwide success and broke records as the highest-grossing film ever directed by a woman.

Rooney Mara

When Rooney Mara auditioned for the lead role in ‘The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo’, some studio executives questioned whether she was right for the part. They thought she lacked the tough, striking look they envisioned for the character. However, director David Fincher strongly believed in her and she committed to a significant physical makeover for the role. Mara’s performance was critically acclaimed, earning her an Oscar nomination and demonstrating her versatility as an actress. Since then, she’s become known for choosing challenging and unique roles.

Awkwafina

Nora Lum, known as Awkwafina, was often told she didn’t fit the typical image of a star because of her unique voice and appearance. Early in her career, many in the entertainment industry doubted she could lead a film. However, she gained recognition through her music and comedy, appearing in movies like ‘Ocean’s 8’ and ‘Crazy Rich Asians’. Her performance in ‘The Farewell’ was critically acclaimed, earning her a Golden Globe Award. Awkwafina continues to pave the way for Asian-American actors and actresses in Hollywood.

Pink

When Pink first started her music career, record company executives told her she didn’t fit the typical pop star image of the late 90s – they thought she wasn’t conventionally pretty enough. They suggested she soften her look and appeal to a wider audience, but she refused. Pink chose to express herself through a rebellious style and authentic, honest songwriting, which attracted a dedicated fanbase. She’s gone on to sell over 40 million albums and become famous for her energetic concerts. Notably, her career has lasted much longer than many of the artists she was initially measured against.

Naomi Campbell

Throughout her incredible career, Naomi Campbell dealt with racism and constant criticism of her appearance. People often labeled her as “difficult” and suggested her look wasn’t as marketable as other models. Despite these challenges, she became a hugely successful and iconic supermodel. She broke barriers by being the first Black woman featured on the covers of French Vogue and Time magazine, and her impact on the fashion industry continues to be significant after many years.

Tyra Banks

Early in her career, while modeling in Europe, Tyra Banks faced rejection from several agencies who felt she was “too curvy” for high fashion. Undeterred, she returned to the United States and shifted her focus to commercial modeling and television work. This led to groundbreaking achievements, including becoming the first Black woman on the cover of ‘Sports Illustrated’ and launching the hugely popular ‘America’s Next Top Model.’ Ultimately, Tyra Banks became a highly successful entrepreneur and media personality.

Maggie Gyllenhaal

Maggie Gyllenhaal has discussed the unrealistic expectations of beauty in Hollywood, recalling an instance where she was told she appeared too old – at just 37 – to play the romantic partner of a 55-year-old actor. Throughout her career, she’s often been told her appearance wasn’t considered conventionally glamorous enough for certain roles. Despite this, she consistently chooses complex and interesting projects, as seen in films like ‘Secretary’ and ‘The Dark Knight’. Gyllenhaal later became a celebrated director with the film ‘The Lost Daughter’ and is widely admired for her commitment to artistic principles.

Kerry Washington

Before landing her breakthrough role on ‘Scandal’, Kerry Washington faced rejection after being fired from two TV pilots. Producers told her she didn’t match the image they had in mind for the main characters, specifically that she wasn’t perceived as “urban” enough. Instead of changing who she was, Kerry kept searching for roles where her acting skills would be appreciated. Her performance as Olivia Pope was a turning point, making her the first Black woman in decades to star as the lead in a network drama. Today, she’s a powerful producer and advocate for important causes.

Tilda Swinton

I’ve always admired Tilda Swinton. She never seemed to fit the typical Hollywood mold – people often described her as androgynous or even otherworldly. I remember reading that early in her career, she was told she wasn’t conventionally pretty enough to make it big. But she never changed who she was! She leaned into her unique look and ended up inspiring filmmakers of all kinds, from those doing really experimental work to big studio productions. She even won an Oscar for ‘Michael Clayton,’ and has been in everything from ‘Narnia’ to Marvel movies! To me, her career really proves that being yourself and taking risks artistically can lead to incredible things.

Oprah Winfrey

When Oprah Winfrey began her career in Baltimore, a producer told her she wasn’t suited for television news, criticizing her as being too emotional and not having a typical news anchor appearance. As a result, she was moved to a daytime talk show, which ultimately launched her incredibly successful media empire. ‘The Oprah Winfrey Show’ became the most popular talk show ever, and Oprah went on to become one of the world’s most powerful and wealthy women.

Kate Moss

When Kate Moss started modeling, many people criticized her for being shorter and thinner than the popular supermodels of the time. Some called her look too fragile and said she wasn’t conventionally beautiful enough for high fashion. However, her unique appearance actually changed the industry, helping to launch the “heroin chic” look that became popular in the 1990s. Despite the initial criticism, Kate Moss went on to become one of the most successful and recognizable models ever, appearing on countless magazine covers around the world.

Sofía Vergara

When Sofia Vergara started her career in Hollywood, she faced criticism for not fitting the typical Latina look – she was naturally blonde. Casting directors told her she didn’t look “pretty” enough for a Latina actress and encouraged her to change her appearance. She ultimately dyed her hair dark brown to meet industry expectations, which eventually led to her role in ‘Modern Family’ and helped launch her career. Despite this initial pressure to conform, she went on to become one of the highest-paid actresses on TV and is now a successful businesswoman and international star.

Zendaya

Early in her career, many doubted whether Zendaya could successfully move beyond her Disney Channel roles and be taken seriously as an actress. Some people in the industry felt her image was too youthful for dramatic roles. However, she quickly proved them wrong with her powerful and critically acclaimed performance in the series ‘Euphoria’. Since then, Zendaya has become a major fashion trendsetter and a star in huge film franchises like ‘Spider-Man’ and ‘Dune’, establishing herself as one of today’s most influential young women.

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